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Sunday, November 15, 2009

Love

Things You Can Do to Keep Your Wife or Girlfriend Happy

Common sense should tell most guys what to do to keep their girl happy. Whether it's a new relationship, long-term or marriage. The rules are all pretty much the same. If you have a girl, you'd be wise to learn how to keep her happy. With you that is. This is because it's a nice and good
thing to do, but also because if your girl is happy, you'll likely be happy too. Below are ten excellent tips on how to keep your wife or girlfriend happy.

1 - Treat her with respect. Always. This should go without saying, but it's here because a lot of guys tend to start forgetting about respecting their girl after they've grown to know them over time and have observed first hand some of the annoying things their girl does. It also happens sometimes just because people become so familiar with having someone in their life. But in reality, none of that should matter, because if you want to keep your girl happy with you, it starts with being respectful to her. Especially when you're angry, depressed or getting rather full of yourself. As an added tip here. Never, ever compare her to another woman.

2 - Tell her how you feel about her. It doesn't matter if you've known her ten minutes, or ten year. Or a hundred. Women need to know how you feel. And they need to hear it on a regular basis. This is assuming you do still like her of course, otherwise, you really don't need this list at all. It's time to either rediscover the things you once liked about her, or go your separate ways.

3 - Show her how you feel about her. This one takes a little more effort. It's easy to talk. Doing things that demonstrate that you care about someone takes action. Hold the door for her. Help her with some insignificant thing. Hold her hand. Look into her eyes when she's talking to you. In short, if you're still smitten with your girl, act like it. Do stuff you know will show her how you feel.

4 - Pay attention. Notice what she says. What she does. Follow what's going on in her life and acknowledge as much by responding to things she's said. Watch her body language. If you pay attention, you'll very rarely be surprised by things she says or does. Plus she'll notice all these things, and it will make her happy.

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